“Today is your off day, you should take a rest. But I got to go out, and you have to take care of the kid, I feel guilty and bad………”
“Is ok, darling, you take care of him everyday from day and night, every hour, every second, you should take a break too.”
‘But…..”
“Is all right, I appreciate and happy to stay at home with him.”
I’m very lucky because he always stand besides me and cheer me up and giving supports to me. I know he also worry and sad about our son, just didn’t show off. And besides that, he is always doing his best to cheer me up. Other then son, I know he also worry about his business and works. He did too mush for us. What can I do is just only share my happiness with him, just don’t add on his burden………let me swallow all the sadness….
Saturday, June 28, 2008
He did too much......
Friday, June 27, 2008
Emotion
I can't remember, since when i became more and more emotional.
One of my friend told me before, don't let people control our emotion, we have to control ourself. I had tried it hard, but is failed. Not only failed, is became more serious. My emotion seems like control by my son, it follows his every steps he went through. I will smile when he throw me a smiling face, i will sad when he act abnormal. 'Sad'.....means i will drops my tears for no reason, just feel like want to cry, to release stress, sometimes i also very hate it, cry is not a method of solving problems, but i really cant control my emotion.
My husband can easily read my emotion through my face. But sometimes i have to pretend that i'm find in front of him, because he will drops his tears when i'm cried.
Many friends told me 'be happy'!!! I had forgotten what means 'happy' since few years ago. I think 'happy' will only come back to me when my son is being normal..............
I always put on my mind 'Hope on Tomorrow', but i dont know how many tomorrow we have and who can predict tomorrow?
How nice if there is an on / off button on our emotion............
Betrayal is more than that
Today, I wanna talk about me opinion in relationship. I know... *NOT AGAIN* but I can't help it. If I don't write it down here, most probably I need to talk it off.
I believe that in a relationship there is something far more important for MEN to do than, say, remaining faithful or showing emotional intelligence. Not that staying faithful is not important, it is of cos must sure definitely on the top 3 list. Staying faithful includes no phone sex, flirting on msn/sms... blah blah blah.
This something is noticing whether your partner has got a new hairdo, smaller tummy, wearing higher heels. If I have to ask you, "do I look different?" you know you have already blown it. The man of men will get in there first with a casual but sincere, "you look different today." I would love a man like that. Then the start of a new conversation.
Another obsession I have is make up. Yes. I don't put on 24/7 and I am confident enough to step out of the house without any because I can afford to look the way I look without it. Some women can't. My obsession is not rooted to the desire to please men. It is more of an intra-gender competition. Especially after dating this guy who can't stop commenting how good these girls on the street look with make up. I want to look better because I know I can. Read me clear -
There is no greater act of betrayal in a relationship than to express admiration for my girlfriends or YOUR female colleagues.
and... I guess you have known by now, I'm aggressive and I don't like you to tell me what to do. Maybe you can try to be the man that I may put my pride down for. If it's too much of a risk for you, I suggest better not.
Tuesday, June 17, 2008
My Personal Website
I have asked Shiok Guy to design and put together a blog or rather a website for me to promote Woman Related Health products and services from United State of America (USA)
Most part of the website is still under-construction, except Breast Beauty is kind of completed. I will use this site to promote products and services which will benefit us woman as a whole. Do check them out and if you like try some of the products and services out.
I will add on more when time permit, the next part will be Weight Loss part of the site.
Cheers
Sensually Fun Girl
http://senbeayou.blogspot.com/
Tuesday, June 10, 2008
Tips from police
The following article is from a friend of mine who happen to be a victim of snatch thief. Luckily she just let her bag goes without struggling with the motorcyclist.
With the recent price hike on petrol and hence snow ball effect on others goods and services, I belief the crime rate will surely climb too. So beware and be smart.
The following tips are from USA police but I belief it applies equally effective here in Malaysia.
1. Tip from police: The elbow is the strongest point on your body.If you are close enough to use it, do! 警方的提醒：手肘是身体最 有力的部位。距离够近，就善用手肘！
2. If a robber asks for your wallet and/or purse, DO NOT HAND IT TO HIM. Toss it away from you....chances are that he is more interested in your Wallet and / or purse than you and he will go for the wallet or purse.RUN LIKE MAD IN THE OTHER DIRECTION! 假如歹徒向你要皮夹或钱包，不要递给他，而是将皮夹或钱包往远处丢去。歹徒很可能对财物比对你有兴趣，他会去拿皮夹或钱包，这是你逃跑的机会。往反方向拼命跑！！
3. If you are ever thrown into the trunk of a car: Kick out the back tail lights and stick your arm out the hole and start waving like crazy. The driver won't see you but everybody else will. This has saved lives. 假如你被丢进车子的后车厢： 把车后灯踢破，将你的手从洞中伸出去，用力挥手 驾驶 人看不到你，但是其他人看得到。这个方法救过无数人命.
4. Women have a tendency to get into their car after shopping,eating,working,etc., and just sit (doing their check book, or making a list, etc.) DON'T DO THIS! The predator will be watching you, and this is the perfect opportunity for him to get in on the passenger side, put a gun to your head, and tell you where to go.女性常常在购物、吃饭及下班后进入车子，然后就坐在驾驶座上处理事情（如记帐、列清单等）。千万不要这么做！歹徒会藉机观察情势，闯入车内，拿枪威胁，控制你的行动。
AS SOON AS YOU GET INTO YOUR CAR, LOCK THE DOORS AND LEAVE. 进入车内，立即锁门，驶离 现场。
5 . A Few Notes About Getting Into Your Car In a Parking Lot,or Parking Garage: 在平面停车场及立体停车场的几个注意事项 ：
A. Be aware: look around you; look into your car, at the passenger side floor, and in the back seat. (And check out under the car as you approach.) 要警觉：环顾四周；察看车 内的乘客座和后座。（接近车子时，留意车底。）
B. If you're parked next to a big van you should enter your car from the passenger door. Most serial killers attack their victims by pulling them into their vans while the women are attempting to get into their cars. 假如你的车子停在箱型车 旁，则应该从乘客车门进入你的车子。许多连续杀人犯都是趁着女性要进入车中时， 将她们拖进箱型车中加害。
C. Look at the car parked on the driver's side of your vehicle and the passenger side. If a male is sitting alone in the seat nearest your car,you may want to walk back into the mall, or work, and get a guard/policeman to walk you back out. IT IS ALWAYS BETTER TO BE SAFE THAN SORRY. (And better paranoid than dead.) 观察停放在你左右两边的车 子。如果有男性单独坐在最近的邻车内，最好回到购物中心或办公室，找保全人员或警察陪你回去。宁愿防患未然，也不要终生遗憾。 ( 大惊小怪总比丧命好。 )
6. ALWAYS take the elevator instead of the stairs. (Stairwells are horrible places to be alone an the perfect crime spot). 永远搭电梯，不要走楼梯。 （楼梯间是一个可怕的地方，容易让人形单影只，变成 最好的犯罪场所。 )
7. If the predator has a gun and you are not under his control,ALWAYS RUN! The predator will only hit you (a running target) 4 in 100 times; And even then, it most likely WILL NOT be a vital organ, RUN! 假如歹徒有枪而你并没有受 到他的控制，一定要跑！一百次中，只有四次歹徒会袭击逃跑的目标；即使他攻击你，大多不会是致命的部位，要跑！
8. As women, we are always trying to be sympathetic: STOP IT! It may get you raped, or killed. Ted Bundy, the serial killer, was a good-looking,well educated man, who ALWAYS played on the sympathies of unsuspecting women? He walked with a cane, or a limp, and often asked'for help' into his vehicle or with his vehicle, which is when he abducted his next victim. 身为女性，我们总是发挥同情心：不要再这样！这样会增加被强暴或是杀害的机会。一个叫泰得 ．邦迪（ Ted Bundy ）的连续杀人犯就是一个相貌堂堂并且受过良好教育的人 ，总是利用女性的同情心。他走路时带着一根手杖或是跛行，经常要求别人 '帮忙 '他进 入车内或是看一下他的车子，趁机绑架受害者 。
Sunday, June 8, 2008
Tracking Via Mobile Phone
Do you want to know where your hubby is located now in the world?
Do you want to be able to track and find out where is your kid?
Do you want to know whether your staff is really sick and at home? Not at Genting having fun!
As long as you know their mobile phone number, you can track them down!
Please respect the privacy of others, don't simply track anyone who does not concern you! If you trust your hubby or wife, don't track their number. The truth might be a bitter pill to swallow!
Click here ..http://www.sat-gps-locate.com/
Saturday, June 7, 2008
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爱情金句
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To be happy with a man, you must understand him a lot and love him a little.
To be happy with a woman, you must love her a lot and not try to understand her at all.
永远的期待
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A woman marries a man expecting he will change, but he doesn't.
A man marries a woman expecting that she won't change, and she does.
恋爱数学
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Smart man + smart woman = romance
Smart man + dumb woman = affair
Dumb man + smart woman = marriage
Dumb man + dumb woman = pregnancy
Thursday, June 5, 2008
都市减肥一族的三餐搭配
减肥的重点就是在饮食上，如何通过控制饮食进而达到摄入少量的热量是减肥的关键，而在减肥的同时保证身体的健康是不容忽视的。
下面我们介绍一下减肥者应如何安排好一日三餐。
早餐：由于一夜未吃东西，人体血糖下降，如果省略早餐，会使我们一上午的情绪都不稳定。合理的早餐应以主食及蛋白质并重，但要避免烧饼、油条等油脂高的食物，餐后再吃点水果，会使你整天神清气爽。
午餐：中餐选择面食时，避免炒面、方便面，而以清汤面加青菜为主，一定不要淋上热油。油炸类食物食用时，先要剥去油炸过的皮再吃，可减少热量摄取。
晚餐：上班族的晚餐通常是三餐之冠，但晚上却是一天活动机会最少的时候，如果此时大量进食，热量无法适量代谢，会在体内转换成脂肪储存，长期如此就变胖了。所以晚餐应以低热量并且七分饱为主，适量增加蔬菜的量，还要记住睡前三小时内禁止进餐，夜宵最好不吃。
在此基础上，以少食多餐的方式安排一天饮食最好，如果你想吃点零食，可在下午吃些低热量的点心，也可降低晚餐摄取量。
严禁夜销
您是不是在关注如何减肥呢?您是不是白天控制饮食，到了睡前却难忍饥饿，就吃个小点心慰劳一下自己呢？小心！肥胖就是从这儿来的！因为减肥是绝对禁吃夜宵的喔！如果你实在是饥饿难忍就吃点豆腐、蔬菜，只要不再饿得睡不着觉就马上停住。
我们的身体在晚上很容易储存脂肪，若是在睡前摄取大量的热量，那么身体自然就会囤积一堆脂肪，当然就会在不知不觉中胖起来罗！这就是为什么节食的人晚上禁吃宵夜的原因。
所以，要想减肥，晚间热量的摄取便一定要特别地注意，在此建议节食者：蛋白质是想要减少热量的人可以考虑的食物。例如：鱼肉、豆腐之类，热量既少营养又高。而且蛋白质以晚上摄取比较好，因为人体在入睡后4个小时所分泌的生长荷尔蒙会最多，晚上吃富含蛋白质的食物可以促进体内细胞和肌肉的生长，想减肥的人是适量的吃一些。
减肥者还应严格减少喝酒，酒精是次高热能食物，每克油脂产生7大卡热能。100毫升XO的酒(约含43毫升酒精)，进了肚子后会产生240大卡热能，等于吃一碗米饭，一次应酬下来，光是喝的酒量，就可等于吃了好几碗饭，故应酬多的人很难不胖。
减肥其实并不难,只要遵守纪律,你也可以轻松的瘦下来。
一个人要维持目前的体重，每天每公斤体重必须吃进30至35大卡的热量。一个50公斤的人，每天吃进1500大卡至2000大卡，体重就会维持现状。如每天多吃了250大卡而维持一个月，就会长肥1公斤。相反每天少吃了250大卡而维持一个月，则可减肥1公斤；每天少吃了1000大卡而维持一个周，同样也可减肥1公斤。也就是每7000大卡热量可换1公斤肉肉。
人体生理上每天至少需要1000大卡的热量，才能从事安全而有效的运转，否则，心肌和血管平滑肌的蛋白质会逐渐流失而造成心脏血管疾病，严重时会死亡，国外常有报道因每日摄入总热量低於500大卡而死亡的。另外，每天低于1000大卡的食物热量如维持很久，会因人体细胞由于长期营养不足而转变成癌细胞，种下数十年后得癌的不幸结局，这一点是一般人所未曾想到的。长期营养不良是得癌症的主要原因之一。
由于有的人经常使用不健康的减肥品或经常节食，他的代谢水平可能会比常人低，也就是他不用摄入这么多的热量就可以维持现有体重，所以请不要随便使用不健康的减肥方法。
严禁夜销
您是不是在关注如何减肥，您是不是白天控制饮食，到了睡前却难忍饥饿，就吃个小点心慰劳一下自己呢？小心！肥胖就是从这儿来的！因为减肥是绝对禁吃夜宵的喔！如果你实在是饥饿难忍就吃点豆腐、蔬菜，只要不再饿得睡不着觉就马上停住.
Smart-Stupid or Stupid-Smart Woman
I have been perceived by some of my friend as i always choose to avoid some 'smart moves'. However, I am seeing some friends who are doing the so call 'smart' moves but ended up feeling upset after knowing the result...
Therefore, i choose to be 'stupid' but happy woman.
I have my own opinion:
Smart-Stupid-woman -> being perceived as stupid but in real is smart and does the right stupid thing to stay happy
Stupid-Smart-woman -> only she thinks she does the smart thing......
What do you think??
The choice is yours...
Tuesday, June 3, 2008
women and deadlines
Women. EER = 354 - (6.91 x age [y]) + PA x { (9.36 x weight [kg]) + (726 x height [m]) }
I found this definition of women. What?!
I have friends who fix some kinda deadline to their relationship with their guys. A you-have-to-ask-to-marry-me-before - (fill in the date) deadline if not... I think you are not the guy for me. It is always easy for these friends in their mid 20s to move on and say byebye to the guys.
BUT - now... some friends in their 30s, jump right into marriage after barely half a year with that man. Well, some lived happily ever after while the rest (fill in the blank).
Sometimes it saddens me to know that women wanna marry because they see it as a NEED. They rather compromise and look beyond all the shortcomings of that man. His terrible temper, his dirty habits, lack of ambition, .....and more more more
Another possibility, your man has given you a big house, a big car, two maids, ten credit cards and you have all the time in the world... to worry about if he is having an affair with his pretty and young secretary. That's true, when women have limited worries, they have the capability to create some. Don't start yelling at me "My husband ain't like that! and I trust him! I feel so secure! You are just jealous!"Oh darn.
What I'm trying to say is - women, be independent! Is it that tough or we simply choose the easy way out? Or we give it all up for L.o.v.e?
Of cos there are exceptional where the prince and princess lived happily ever after. Just my private POV out loud.
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Monday, June 2, 2008
AGNES之变身记
由于家族遗传肥胖基因,加上饮食不当.从小到大就胖的我,从来没有瘦过.产后体重一直往上升.直到105KG时,健康亮了起红灯.糖尿病找上我,月事也开始不来,甚至一年都没来一次.>.< 在不得已的状况之下,我开始踏上了减肥这条路... 一年半的时间,从105KG减到目前的74KG.一路走来并不会辛苦,因为减肥已经成为我生活中的一部分了. 好的营养,对的减肥概念,是减肥不复胖的不二法门. 
想要减肥,办法问我~
Did you Orgasm?
How many sexually active woman actually reach orgasm? How many of us actually know what orgasm is all about?
Gossiping among my girl friends on the Big O tend to have different view on orgasm. Sadly I belief a lot of women are just Arouse, High or Feel Good. One girl friend said "I feel good and wet when I orgasm". What is orgasm for woman then?
For man it is so reachable, predictable and measurable. So reachable because as long as we rub it, stroke it, suck it and with enough stimulation the man is going to just orgasm, come or shot! It is so predictable because when a man orgasm you cannot miss the jet of swimming active sperms. It is so measurable on how big his orgasm is by how many gallon of liquid he pumps out.
How about we woman? Statistically only about 35% of women reach orgasm during sexual intercourse. Woo! 65% of women never experience the joy of the ultimate big O. Very sad indeed! I belief the number is more than 65% for most Asian woman since we tend to avoid the issue of sexuality, and we see it as taboo.
Let me stop here for a while, and you girl go home and ask yourself. Did you REALLY Orgasm? Let us explore more in order to help us move into the 35%.
Damn I don't want to be the 65% for the rest of my life. Do you?
Hey! For you man who read this post, have you even ask if your partner reach the Big O? Don't just fall down and sleep straight away lah! For your information, The Shiok Guy has setup up similar blog for man only, click here
Sunday, June 1, 2008
Love...
Love...
There are different kind of loves...
God's love, Human's love, material's love..etc...What love do you desire?? Have you ever think of it??
GOD's love is the one I choose..because with HIS love, I can survive until today..HIS love never failed or faded. HIS love remains same forever. We are sinner and yet HE still forgives us no matter how many times we sins against HIM. HE still loves us..
I remembered few years back. A friend of mine sent me a poem named "Footprints In The Sand". I cried when I read it, very meaningful poem...It shows how GOD loves me. To HIM..we are HIS forever love..Love is simple and yet complicated.
What does "Love" mean to you? For me, Love is a recipe in a relationship to anything, it requires sincerity, no jealousy, no keep record on people's wrong doing, very unconditional in giving care and protecting of one another.
Love is very powerful, when we love something or falling in love, we will do anything to protect and care for it. But...in our society, we are getting more realistic, materialistic..our love is more to conditional love and self-centered. This is always leading to human problems nowadays. You can see those who are heart broken, mental problems, family matters and etc.
Few examples, I have a friend who had gone through bad relationships, he is so frustrated. He told me, he cant believe in love, it's all fake and rubbish. Ended up now he becomes a one night stand guy or even sometimes, when he is lonely, he will get free sex from his friends. He needs sex but do not believe in love. Another good friend of mine, she is very nice, smart and caring lady. She is blinded with love, she sacrified alot for the man she loved but the man never appreciated it. Her life is messy now, she becomes a good drinker, carrying her fake smile. My heart is crying for her..Then i started questioning, why all of this happen?? Where is the love??
I really want to tell everyone, love others like how you love yourself. Forgives those who have hurt us. I know it's hard..but that's the only way to get yourself out of the darkness and sorrow life. How long you want to be in the darkness? Don't you feel tired?? Living in darkness is a very long process...
Forgiveness is another important part in a love, willing to let go all the hatred will bring us not only happiness but joyful heart.Life is so fragile till we hardly control what is going to happen tomorrow.. Why dont all of us together get ourself out of darkness?? Live in this earth with joyful heart and leave all beautiful memories to those who love us so much. If no one love you, remember JESUS, OUR LORD always love us, no matter how sinful we are. As long as you open ur heart and accept HIM to be your loved one forever. JESUS IS MY FOREVER LOVE, how bout you??
To my parents, brothers and my late sister..I really want to tell you..I love you with all my heart..no matter how imperfect you are..You are my family given by GOD to me. Whilst to my beloved man, I want to tell you, I really love you..you are the precious gift from GOD for me..To forever Love JESUS..I love you so much..thanks for my everything..I know my sister rest in peace with YOU..I love you Ah Mei
.***written from my heart***
Loves,
AhDear_Yvonne
Every woman is a prostitute??!!
The other day when i was having dinner with a guy friend, i couldn't remember what we were chatting about and how we started ...but he came out with such statement "every woman is a prostitute".
Some women are prostitute to many guys...but some are just prostitute to one. Really 岂有此理..
He had his stupid logic behind it - Real pros provide sex to customer to get money. While wives provide sex to their hubby for protection, security, of course money as well..
Haha i was stunt with what he said...In fact, quite true...Think of it..why did i married my husband?? Ya, for a shelter, for a shoulder to cry on, for a companion, etc etc.. In return, he got to have sex with me?? Kind of 'commercialise' ??...hahaha
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S53 from Singapore
A blog where women from different places put their thoughts into words. Do you really care about their background? age? look? Let's just keep it this way. As what Oscar Wilde said, "the final mystery is oneself." I shall be - S53 from Singapore.
Agnes是谁?
Agnes是我，一个爱美的现代妈妈兼体重管理教练.来自JB。有三个可爱的孩子。
活了将近30年，回憶起過去很多事，我一直都是很幸運的一個人。
我喜欢美好的事物，美好的一切。现代女人应该懂得提高自己的能量让自己变的更有魅力。
感谢shiok guy的邀请，我会常来这里分享我的心得~~
Agnes
