Betrayal is more than that

Today, I wanna talk about me opinion in relationship. I know... *NOT AGAIN* but I can't help it. If I don't write it down here, most probably I need to talk it off.

I believe that in a relationship there is something far more important for MEN to do than, say, remaining faithful or showing emotional intelligence. Not that staying faithful is not important, it is of cos must sure definitely on the top 3 list. Staying faithful includes no phone sex, flirting on msn/sms... blah blah blah.

This something is noticing whether your partner has got a new hairdo, smaller tummy, wearing higher heels. If I have to ask you, "do I look different?" you know you have already blown it. The man of men will get in there first with a casual but sincere, "you look different today." I would love a man like that. Then the start of a new conversation.

Another obsession I have is make up. Yes. I don't put on 24/7 and I am confident enough to step out of the house without any because I can afford to look the way I look without it. Some women can't. My obsession is not rooted to the desire to please men. It is more of an intra-gender competition. Especially after dating this guy who can't stop commenting how good these girls on the street look with make up. I want to look better because I know I can. Read me clear -
There is no greater act of betrayal in a relationship than to express admiration for my girlfriends or YOUR female colleagues.

and... I guess you have known by now, I'm aggressive and I don't like you to tell me what to do. Maybe you can try to be the man that I may put my pride down for. If it's too much of a risk for you, I suggest better not.

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women and deadlines

Women. EER = 354 - (6.91 x age [y]) + PA x { (9.36 x weight [kg]) + (726 x height [m]) }
I found this definition of women. What?!

I have friends who fix some kinda deadline to their relationship with their guys. A you-have-to-ask-to-marry-me-before - (fill in the date) deadline if not... I think you are not the guy for me. It is always easy for these friends in their mid 20s to move on and say byebye to the guys.

BUT - now... some friends in their 30s, jump right into marriage after barely half a year with that man. Well, some lived happily ever after while the rest (fill in the blank).

Sometimes it saddens me to know that women wanna marry because they see it as a NEED. They rather compromise and look beyond all the shortcomings of that man. His terrible temper, his dirty habits, lack of ambition, .....and more more more

WHY?

Simply because they have a deadline to meet and since the guy is there to provide for them, why not? They need to have a family. They need to have children. A man can provide for their basic needs... food... warmth... shelter... comfort... love? Why not?

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A few years down the road, they started worrying about the financial situation at home. The man ain't earning enough to provide for you. He is working late every other day. You started comparing that Mrs So-and-so is having a maid and she has a car. OR
Another possibility, your man has given you a big house, a big car, two maids, ten credit cards and you have all the time in the world... to worry about if he is having an affair with his pretty and young secretary. That's true, when women have limited worries, they have the capability to create some. Don't start yelling at me "My husband ain't like that! and I trust him! I feel so secure! You are just jealous!"Oh darn.

What I'm trying to say is - women, be independent! Is it that tough or we simply choose the easy way out? Or we give it all up for L.o.v.e?

Of cos there are exceptional where the prince and princess lived happily ever after. Just my private POV out loud.

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S53 from Singapore

A blog where women from different places put their thoughts into words. Do you really care about their background? age? look? Let's just keep it this way. As what Oscar Wilde said, "the final mystery is oneself." I shall be - S53 from Singapore.

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