There was a night; me and my gay “boyfriend”, B went to a dinner. We were sharing our “sexperience” about men; basically he was the one who taught me how to tackle a man. After dinner, he brought me to a pub nearby, he wanna to show me how to do it.
When we talked up from the staircase, we saw a gorgeous man sitting with his friend at the bar table. “The first thing, you have to do is, choose a right man and sitting next to him, it definitely need to be at the bar.”
So we chose to sit next to the gorgeous man. He ordered a bottle of white wine. “It will be better if you ordered champagne, if champagne is too expensive for you, at least you have to order something close to it, like white wine.”
While we were chit chatting and observing the man sitting next to us, the man never even looked at us since we sat next to him. We saw there were 2 girls sitting opposite to us and wearing something very revealing. B said “Don’t ever wear like them when you were out hunting for man because it makes you look cheap and desperate. A simple top with one or two button opened in front of your chest will make a woman look sexy enough.”
After an hour, while we finished the bottle of wine, the man finally turned his face and look at us. Without any further ado, B quickly picked up his wine glass and say “Hey there, how are you?” The man replied “Fine, thanks! How about you?” Then we started the conversation.
He is a doctor who is still under training in one of the local government hospital. B was straight to the point and telling him he is gay and I’m straight, well, both of us are hunting for men. We were observing him whole night. He was surprised and you can see smile on his face, he was proud.
When we finished our wine, he offered both of us a drink. I was a bit drunk and I didn’t think I can drink anymore. B ordered a martini and he ordered a long island tea for me. When B said “Martini, please”, the man impressed about it and say “Gays have very high taste. No matter in fashion, life style and even liquor.”
B was whispered to me “Think a drink as your signature drink that make you look classy. Don’t reject any offer when people want to buy you a drink, just take it. Let it if you can’t finish it!”
B was helping me to tackle the guy, so he said “She is single and you are single too, will you call her out for a drink sometime?” “Sure” the man replied. “But you don’t have her number, how are you going to call her then?” The man quickly took out his phone and key-in my number. And of course he gave me his too.
After a nice conversation, the man has to go. He paid our bill. And he kissed me goodbye.
I really impressed on what a gay man can do. He is 100 times advance than me in terms of hunting man. His tactics and his strategies are all works and useful. May be gay men knows men well, they are same kind anyway.
Finally I realized, “Hey there, how are you?” This is the ice breaking sentence. Is that difficult to say the word “HI” to the man that you found gorgeous? Sometimes, is really difficult, I have to admit it.
Handbook: Man hunting @ the bar
* Step into the bar, and find your target
* Must choose a bar seats as the table seats are more isolated and more like a bunch of friends having some closed session which you don’t welcome any interruption.
* Sit next to your target
* Get your signature drink
* For girls, please don’t order beer unless you are with some of your male friends, because beer will downgrade you. If possible, choose wine, because just the tall wine glass can make you look classy.
* Grab the opportunity when your target is looking at you. You may miss the first time, but when your target is going to look at you for the second time. Grad the opportunity and say ““Hey there, how are you?”
* During the conversation, trying to humor, fun and humble. Show the qualities in you, don’t just trying to act pretty.
* Be smart and intelligent
* Beware on what are you wearing, don’t wear something reveal 80% of your breast. It will make you look desperate and horny.
* Be classy and sexy. No bitchy and slutty
Girls, please try it and let me know whether this is useful to you. Gentleman, please tell me whether these are correct to tackle a man.
ENJOY!!!
When we talked up from the staircase, we saw a gorgeous man sitting with his friend at the bar table. “The first thing, you have to do is, choose a right man and sitting next to him, it definitely need to be at the bar.”
So we chose to sit next to the gorgeous man. He ordered a bottle of white wine. “It will be better if you ordered champagne, if champagne is too expensive for you, at least you have to order something close to it, like white wine.”
While we were chit chatting and observing the man sitting next to us, the man never even looked at us since we sat next to him. We saw there were 2 girls sitting opposite to us and wearing something very revealing. B said “Don’t ever wear like them when you were out hunting for man because it makes you look cheap and desperate. A simple top with one or two button opened in front of your chest will make a woman look sexy enough.”
After an hour, while we finished the bottle of wine, the man finally turned his face and look at us. Without any further ado, B quickly picked up his wine glass and say “Hey there, how are you?” The man replied “Fine, thanks! How about you?” Then we started the conversation.
He is a doctor who is still under training in one of the local government hospital. B was straight to the point and telling him he is gay and I’m straight, well, both of us are hunting for men. We were observing him whole night. He was surprised and you can see smile on his face, he was proud.
When we finished our wine, he offered both of us a drink. I was a bit drunk and I didn’t think I can drink anymore. B ordered a martini and he ordered a long island tea for me. When B said “Martini, please”, the man impressed about it and say “Gays have very high taste. No matter in fashion, life style and even liquor.”
B was whispered to me “Think a drink as your signature drink that make you look classy. Don’t reject any offer when people want to buy you a drink, just take it. Let it if you can’t finish it!”
B was helping me to tackle the guy, so he said “She is single and you are single too, will you call her out for a drink sometime?” “Sure” the man replied. “But you don’t have her number, how are you going to call her then?” The man quickly took out his phone and key-in my number. And of course he gave me his too.
After a nice conversation, the man has to go. He paid our bill. And he kissed me goodbye.
I really impressed on what a gay man can do. He is 100 times advance than me in terms of hunting man. His tactics and his strategies are all works and useful. May be gay men knows men well, they are same kind anyway.
Finally I realized, “Hey there, how are you?” This is the ice breaking sentence. Is that difficult to say the word “HI” to the man that you found gorgeous? Sometimes, is really difficult, I have to admit it.
Handbook: Man hunting @ the bar
* Step into the bar, and find your target
* Must choose a bar seats as the table seats are more isolated and more like a bunch of friends having some closed session which you don’t welcome any interruption.
* Sit next to your target
* Get your signature drink
* For girls, please don’t order beer unless you are with some of your male friends, because beer will downgrade you. If possible, choose wine, because just the tall wine glass can make you look classy.
* Grab the opportunity when your target is looking at you. You may miss the first time, but when your target is going to look at you for the second time. Grad the opportunity and say ““Hey there, how are you?”
* During the conversation, trying to humor, fun and humble. Show the qualities in you, don’t just trying to act pretty.
* Be smart and intelligent
* Beware on what are you wearing, don’t wear something reveal 80% of your breast. It will make you look desperate and horny.
* Be classy and sexy. No bitchy and slutty
Girls, please try it and let me know whether this is useful to you. Gentleman, please tell me whether these are correct to tackle a man.
ENJOY!!!
3 comments:
I think what matters is the approach and what you would like to get out of that man.
Totally agree on the dressing part. From what i observe, man attracted to smart woman not a hoochy with two ripe papayas waiting to be pluck. Talk smart, humble (remember...all man born with EGO) and know the best time to flirt and that's what we call SEXY!!!
momma23
I'm so wondering, why a gay man know so well about how to tackle a guy? sigh...for those girls like me who have no idea about that at all, maybe should introspect ourselves.
By the way, getting a guy in a night spot, sometimes it's not about what you want to get from him, but it's about the sense of "satisfaction" and "being recognized", an act to test your attractiveness in the eyes of male animals.
So, no need to be too serious after all, whether successful in tackling or flirting with a guy there, because at the end of the day, males mostly are merely "animal" in these kind of places, and we don't need a flock of "animals" to recognize us, hehe...
A guy will know how another tick! So asking another guy to teach you to tackle another guy is a smart way of learning the skill..
But then again, if you are asking a gay then his opinion will depend on the gay friend is a "he" or "she"
If your gay friend is a "he", his target will be another man who is a "she", then you do not want advise from this gay friend of yours.. unless you like it..
However if you gay friend is a "she" then his advise will be good
my a few cents worth..
Shiok Guy
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